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Timing & Triggers

When Should You Start Estate Planning?

Almost always sooner than you think. Here’s a plain-English look at the life moments that make a plan urgent, and what to do first.

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The Short Answer

If you’re an adult, the time was probably yesterday. Estate planning isn’t about wealth or age, it’s about being prepared for two things that happen to everyone: incapacity and death. The right time is before you need it, because by definition you can’t put it together once you do.

Life Triggers That Make a Plan Urgent

  • Becoming a parent — naming guardians is the single most important reason most people finally write a plan
  • Buying your first home — Washington real estate is the most common probate-creating asset
  • Getting married, or remarrying into a blended family
  • Going through a divorce — beneficiaries and powers of attorney need to change immediately
  • Receiving an inheritance or coming into significant assets
  • Starting a business or taking on equity compensation such as RSUs or options
  • A health diagnosis — for you, a spouse, or aging parents
  • Your kids turning 18 — they need HIPAA and POA documents the day they head to college
  • Approaching the Washington estate tax threshold, around $3 million in total estate value

By Decade, A Rough Guide

  • 20s: at minimum, a medical and financial power of attorney and HIPAA release, especially before traveling or college
  • 30s: full will-based plan if you have a partner, child, home, or any meaningful assets
  • 40s: revisit guardianship choices, consider a trust if you’ve bought real estate or had more kids
  • 50s: review for changes in assets, beneficiaries, and any estate-tax exposure as net worth grows
  • 60s and beyond: confirm successor trustees, powers of attorney, and beneficiary alignment; update if you’ve moved states

How Often Should You Update?

Every three to five years as a baseline, plus immediately after major life changes: marriage, divorce, a new child, a death in the family, a move to or from Washington, a significant change in assets, or a change in who you’d want as guardian, executor, or trustee. A plan that’s never reviewed is often worse than no plan, because it can name an ex-spouse or a person you no longer trust.

What to Do First

  • List the people: who’d raise your kids, who’d make medical decisions, who’d manage your finances
  • List the assets: real estate, retirement accounts, life insurance, bank accounts, anything in your name
  • Check existing beneficiaries on 401(k)s, IRAs, and life insurance, since these override your will
  • Book a 30-minute virtual consultation and we’ll tell you exactly what you need, no obligation

FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

As soon as you become a legal adult at 18 you should have a medical and financial power of attorney. By the time you have a partner, child, home, or any meaningful assets, you should have a full estate plan in place. The right time is always before you need it.

No. Young adults are the people most likely to face medical emergencies far from family, exactly when powers of attorney and HIPAA releases matter most. New parents in particular shouldn’t wait, since naming guardians for minor children is one of the most important things a will does.

Marriage, divorce, the birth of a child, the death of a beneficiary or named decision-maker, a move to a new state, buying real estate, starting a business, a significant change in assets, or any change in who you would want raising your children or managing your affairs.

Plan to review every three to five years even if nothing changes, and update immediately after any major life event. A stale plan can be worse than no plan, because it can name an ex-spouse, a person you no longer trust, or beneficiaries who have already passed away.

Yes, at minimum a financial power of attorney, medical power of attorney, and HIPAA release. Without them, no one has legal authority to pay your bills, talk to your doctors, or make decisions for you in an emergency. Your parents don’t automatically have those rights once you’re 18.

Book a free 30-minute virtual consultation. We’ll walk through your family, assets, and goals, then recommend the right package, or honestly tell you if you don’t need one yet.

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